Although you might be miffed at your ex for leaving you out in the cold because of a petty quarrel over a minor thing, you can make your ex absolutely yearn for you and get in touch with you again to patch things up between you. If you are able to possess these characteristics, then these will make you desirable to your ex.
Act like you are somebody mature and responsible. Outside appearances can be deceiving. Use deception now to show the world especially your ex that you are a prize catch. It is human nature to stick to people who ooze self confidence and poise. A person who needs is a loser in the game of love. No one desires a needy person. A person wants to look for a person who is highly responsible and can be a tower of strength and a pillar to lean on to.
Leader of Men
When was the last time you saw a "follower" with a sexy woman?
Women do not like followers. They like leaders. This is because leaders convey HIGH value to them rather than low value. So stop focusing on being the guy who "goes with the flow". Be the assertive man in your group and be the one to make the bulk of decisions.
The leader always gets the best while the followers only get the scraps.
Challenging
You need to be your own man. If you don't agree with something she says then TELL her. Don't just smile and nod just because you want to "please" her. In reality, this passiveness is actually boring her out of her mind.
Add some spice into your conversations with women. Challenge them and make her react to you.

